Because this is such a powerful meditation, we want to make sure your goals are promoting good in the world and not evil! So for five minutes repeat silently to yourself, in your mind's eye, “My heart is open. I open my heart. I am good, I do good and I am loved.” You can adapt this to some other phrases if they feel more natural to you, too. Some examples from the book are, “I am worthy. I am cared for. I care for others. I love myself. I love others.”
Human beings survive and thrive amidst insurmountable odds every day! Danny Johnson went from homeless to millionaire in less than two years. Maickel Melamed, a man who suffers from crippling Muscular Dystrophy, just ran and completed the Boston Marathon. People like Tracy Sloan and Ann Cameron cured their own cancer without chemotherapy, through research, dedication, and eating real food.
Look. Yes, you should have a vision of what you want your life to look like. I have a very clear vision. But it’s not hanging over my head. It’s in my pocket. Actually, it’s in my phone. And it changes as I change. They are a list of wants and goals but not needs. They do not define me or my worth. My vision acts as a compass. Do I want these things? Fuck yes I want these things. Will I not allow myself to be happy if I don’t obtain them? Nope. Been there, done that. Never again.