It’s time for you to push past those beliefs and gain clarity on what it is your heart desires. I invite you to write out exactly what you want in every single area of your life. Goal-setting is not what I am suggesting you do. That will come with time, but for now, picture the life of your dreams with no limits. Pretend that you had no limiting beliefs.
Emotion is energy and energy attracts like energy according to the law of attraction. Your feelings create your reality. That is why it is important to choose listening to songs and music that causes you to feel the feelings you would feel in the state of experiencing your desires as reality. Instead of songs that causes you to feel otherwise because those feelings will very well attract those conditions into your life. The same principle applies to the shows that you watch, the materials that you read and the things you talk about. Choose to engage in things that generate in you the feeling of experiencing what you want.
Look. Yes, you should have a vision of what you want your life to look like. I have a very clear vision. But it’s not hanging over my head. It’s in my pocket. Actually, it’s in my phone. And it changes as I change. They are a list of wants and goals but not needs. They do not define me or my worth. My vision acts as a compass. Do I want these things? Fuck yes I want these things. Will I not allow myself to be happy if I don’t obtain them? Nope. Been there, done that. Never again.