1. The scatter effect. When you tell other people about your goals and ideals, your focus is drained. By telling others, you instill a false sense of accomplishment in yourself, as if it were already done. It sucks you dry of motivation essentially. Then you don't act on it because you no longer feel motivated to. You spent your focus at the wrong time. It's better to keep it to yourself, and channel the focus within you each day.
Emotions help you create reality. When you believe in something, love and cherish it, you can create it more quickly. You have the power to manifest anything your heart desires! If there is anything you want to create more of, focus upon it. Whatever you turn your attention to, you will create. What we give out, we get back. The energy you give out is the results you get. Imagine what your life would be like if your mind could always be focused on thoughts that were filled with joy, peace, love, abundance and feeling successful! Whenever you feel good, you are in vibrational harmony with your desires.
Schedule some quiet time for some deep contemplation of what you desire to create in your life. What are your goals, hopes and wishes? Sit down with a pen and paper. Get clear, crystal clear. Define what you do want. Describe it, draw it, and define it. Define it in terms of the positive attributes. Define the attributes and characteristics of your dream. Take care not to use anything as a descriptor that is actually a statement about what your dream is not. Define what it is. Know exactly what it is you want.
After you’ve set your powerful intentions, designed all of your desires with pinpointed specificity and then heightened your vibration with your thoughts and feelings, you then need to let go of your expectations. This can be the trickiest part of the manifesting process because you need to get out of your own way. Too often people sabotage themselves at the point where they just need to trust. The best affirmation to use?
"It takes roughly three times of repeating the positive ideas to negate the negative thoughts. Try a vision board. List five things you want to focus on this month and constantly repeat them daily like a mantra. For example, my vision board says, 'Money flies at me from all directions.' Sometimes, I get a large-paying client, and sometimes, I simply find a quarter on the street. Point being, money is coming to me from everywhere. After you focus on what you want, you need to keep in that mindset. If you allow any negative thoughts to creep in, you will reverse or negate all the work you just did," Estes recommends.
Example: I want to help millennials with finding and developing sustainable, profitable careers they are passionate about and teach them all about #adulting in terms of finance, create a home they love (affordably), while still getting to binge Netflix, travel the world, and enjoy their platonic and intimate relationships. All of that was actually part of my original vision when going off on my own in 2014 (because #realtalk: that’s all the things I wanted to know too!).
What Is Law Of Attraction And How To Use It
7. LIVE YOUR LIFE FROM YOUR HEART. This might be the MOST IMPORTANT step. Make sure all your interactions come from a place of love. What you put out into the Universe comes back to you. This is a Universal truth. If you’re putting out negative, ego-based, selfish energy - THAT’S what you’ll bring back to you. I can’t emphasize this enough. I really believe this is the true secret to manifesting the life of your dreams. If you put out loving energy, it WILL return to you. I promise.
I have been practicing this Abraham-Hicks Law of Attraction processes for over 10 years now and it has changed my life. I am happy, relaxed, positive and filled with a sense of well-being every day of my life. Whatever I desire just comes to me, no effort. I'm so glad that I found this book years ago to begin my journey toward a life of well-being. Recently, my son asked me what would be the best book for him to learn how to live like I do and I immediately suggested this book and had it sent to him. It gives very clear and easy to follow descriptions of the Law of Attraction, the Law of Deliberate Creating and the Law of Allowing and how they work in our lives. At the end of the book are a series of practices to help you to change your perspectives on life and learn new positive habits of thinking. I couldn't recommend it more. It's the basics and it works better than you can imagine. My daughter called me last night and mentioned she had seen the book at her brother's house and wanted to learn more about how it works, so another has gone out to her. It is delightful to know my children are on their way to being as happy as I am. I never would have suggested it unless they asked. But as the title says, "Ask And It Is Given".
You claim that "positive thoughts always resulting in positive things" is not the basis of the LOA. In part you are correct. The foundational basis in science, as I alluded to in the article was that thought stuff particles travel through ether (not air) and interact with formless stuff to create whatever it is that you are thinking about. This was how "the law" started.