The Law of Attraction is one of the better known universal laws. The theory behind the Law of Attraction is that we create our own realities. Not only do we attract things we want, we also attract things we don't want. We attract the people in our lives, the stuff inside our homes, and the money in our bank accounts through our thoughts and feelings.
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If you want the universe to deliver your ideal partner, Pam Thomas, Chief Change Officer and Intuitive at What’s Within U, tells Bustle, you need to be really clear and specific on what kind of person you wish to attract. "It’s like going into a restaurant and placing an order," she says. "If you say to the waiter, 'I’ll have a meat dish with a side of vegetables,' you're leaving yourself wide open to being served cow tongue with a side of creamed spinach." Unless you're into that sort of thing, you probably won't be happy with what you get. So be specific. Ask yourself what your ideal partner and relationship really looks like to you.
Note your existing talents and skills. Looking at the circumstances of your life is not usually enough. If you want to find a realistic way to manifest your desires, you need to look at what you have got to offer yourself. Just about everyone has got something they're particularly good at. Write down a list of five things you at least consider yourself 'better than average' at. Cross-reference your existing skills with the goals you have. Will any of them directly help you fulfill your goals? If not, you'll have to work on learning skills that will.
Avoid pinning the idea to a specific person, a specific house, a specific job, etc. If you are looking to manifest a relationship, define the relationship not the person you think you would like to be in the relationship with. If you are looking for a new home define the home walk through it room by room in your mind, define the characteristics of the neighborhood or climate. Let the Universe identify who the person is or what place exactly meets the characteristics you have identified. Once you have completed your definition of your dream, you have placed your order with the Universe. Surrender to the process, trust in the universal wisdom. Certainly define your dream very specifically down to the details and let go, do not try to control the: who what where when and how your dream will materialize. Your job is to define the dream and fuel it, which brings us to step 2.
Look. Yes, you should have a vision of what you want your life to look like. I have a very clear vision. But it’s not hanging over my head. It’s in my pocket. Actually, it’s in my phone. And it changes as I change. They are a list of wants and goals but not needs. They do not define me or my worth. My vision acts as a compass. Do I want these things? Fuck yes I want these things. Will I not allow myself to be happy if I don’t obtain them? Nope. Been there, done that. Never again.
When you’re in the know you’re deliberate about what you want. When you’re in the know you no longer vibrate energy of fear or disbelief. You just know. As your disbelief wilts away, wanting is replaced by knowing. Getting into the know happens naturally. When you diligently practice steps one through four, you will clean house, get clear, and feel happier. This process is healing and powerful, and it leads to a deep inner knowing that you are right where you need to be. Accepting your greatness in this moment, right now, is what manifests more greatness. Being in the know helps you accept that you already are living in your desired manifestation. When you feel it, you live it—regardless of what is happening on the outside. In time, the Universe catches up with your energy and your desires come into form. This process of allowing the manifestation to follow your internal faith is the true process of co-creation.
But through following my intuition and developing my own process, I was able to manifest incredible things. First it was an apartment in Echo Park for $300, then a partner with crazy specificity, like a photographer with long blond surfer hair and a Parisian mom. I realized I had a gift with this, but I needed to drop everything I’d learned about manifestation. I began to crystallize my formula, the pattern I witnessed, which is in a nutshell: Our thoughts don’t determine anything about manifestation; our subconscious beliefs do. Our childhood imprints, from zero to twenty-four years old, create the patterning of what we project and bring back to us.
Everybody has dreams they would love to pursue. More often than not however, people are left to accept something less than that. Real life gets in the way, and the goals themselves appear too big to be tackled realistically. It doesn't have to be that way. While there is no single proven way to go about manifesting one's desires, most would agree it begins with a great attitude, and a clear idea of where you'd like to be. Living out your dreams usually entails building your perspective and way of life from the ground up, but it can be done.
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As a mind-reader, you should try to ATTRACT a different job, since in no way do I have any anger towards anyone with erroneous beliefs. I do feel sorry for you, but this is not anger. This is a free country and free society and you are free to believe anything you desire and free to waste your time as you see fit. You can smoke cigarettes as well. They will harm you and that is your choice. Same as a belief in a LOA.
Break your big goals into smaller ones. If your desires are big enough to affect your life in a significant way, there's no way you'll be able to tackle them without breaking them down into easy parts. Much as a novel is divided into chapters, you want to take your goals and approach them one step at a time. For some, this might involve taking things back to the drawing board and slowly working yourself up to the point where the end goal is finally within your reach.
Minimize wasted time. Procrastination is a looming curse in the age of distractions. You can probably think of many ways you are distracted throughout the day. Idle chat, social media and excess TV all sap away time that would much rather be put towards working on your goals. At the end of the day, you won't remember any of the idle things you did, but you will remember the time you spent working hard.
The following feelings and attitudes emit a higher vibrational frequency that resonates with your desires and attract them faster. Happiness, joy, bliss, appreciation, gratitude, love, peace, admiration, certainty, confidence, faith, courage, hope, freedom and trust. The following feelings emit a lower vibrational frequency that attracts negative events and push your desires away. Condemnation, guilt, worry, disappointment, resentment, fear, insecurity, doubt, hesitation and sadness.
Thank you Cardisa. You are right, for some reason humanity has perfected the art of manifesting bad things. It is so much easier for us to think negatively, consistently, have you noticed that? It's incredible how we have been conditioned that way. That's why each day, I try to practice what I preach and stay positive and grateful for the good in life.
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5) No Date: When you live as if you have already accomplished your goals, there is no reason to establish deadlines or timelines. As Secret author Rhonda Byrne stated, “It takes no time for the Universe to manifest what you want.” While goal setting research supports the importance of establishing timelines to achieve success, LOA experts assert that it would be inappropriate to set a deadline for the universe to achieve your goal.
One thing that you might not know is that saying no means a lot. Saying no to something will not make it go away. The more that you will try to push it away, the more powerful that it gets. Note that in the world the law of attraction is the strongest. Your thoughts are likely to become your beliefs, then your belief becomes your perception and perception determines the kind of experiences that you have.
Here is the most effective way. First of all, go onto google, print off all the images of your goals completed such as a 'six pack' 'mansion' and 'own business' etc. print them, stick them somewhere you will see them often. I put mine in a notebook alongside inspirational messages. Look at the images often, the subconscious will take note BUT will not yet be impressed with the information.
Jasmine L. Thomas, M. Ed. is a follower of Christ, lover of family, a powerful educator, an entrepreneur, and an encourager to everyone she encounters. She is a passionate advocate for educational and Christian-based empowerment amongst youth and women. To live out this calling, Jasmine owns Limitless Learning Tutoring, LLC, The Mindset Queen Coaching Program, and Thomas & Company Publishing. Jasmine believes that people should be given the proper mind enriching tools to elevate their lives to the next level.